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	<title>Singles in My Area &#187; John Orok</title>
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		<title>Beautiful Single Girls</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2010 08:26:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Orok</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you want to meet beautiful single girls? Are you tired of going out to clubs to try and find &#8220;the one?&#8221; Do you think you&#8217;re ready for a friendship, a sexual partner, or maybe a serious relationship? Well, online dating sites provide an opportunity for you to avoid the long, painful process of searching [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you want to meet beautiful single girls? Are you tired of going out to clubs to try and find &#8220;the one?&#8221; Do you think you&#8217;re ready for a friendship, a sexual partner, or maybe a serious relationship? Well, online dating sites provide an opportunity for you to avoid the long, painful process of searching and still meet the right person. Over 20 million people visit online dating sites regularly, according to Online Dating Magazine, and over two hundred people get married as a result. And it is expected that the service will only continue to grow.</p>
<p>Online dating services give you a wider variety of women to choose from. There are only so many people that go to a single bar or club; local social networks have a number limit. Online dating sites do not. You are likely to see many women you&#8217;ve never met before, and you&#8217;ll never feel like you&#8217;re stuck in a rut.</p>
<p>Using online sources allows single men to meet beautiful single girls without having to question whether they are looking for a relationship. Online dating sites provide each member with a personal profile, which details personal information, including the type of relationship desired. It is fast and easy to find out information about people through these easily browsable profiles. You can decide whether a woman is right for you before even saying hello to her.</p>
<p>For those men out there who find themselves choking up when they try to talk to a cute girl in person, online dating is for you! Social awkwardness is reduced because initial interactions are done through the computer and not face to face. You don&#8217;t have to meet her in person until you are both comfortable. Shy people can express themselves without nerves holding them back.</p>
<p>There are several online dating sites, such as eHarmony, that match profiles compatible to yours, so you don&#8217;t have to spend too much time searching on your own. This way, you can find beautiful single girls that meet your needs, and there is also a good chance that she will see you first.</p>
<p>Are you ready to find the girl of your dreams? It&#8217;s just a few clicks away. </p>
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		<title>Hot Singles in my Area</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2010 06:52:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Orok</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Online Dating]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I love to surf many online dating sites to find hot singles in my area. The use of online dating sites allows me to meet all types of people from different backgrounds. I love flirting with people I find attractive. Sometimes I seek long distance conversations from others across the country and around the world. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love to surf many online dating sites to find hot singles in my area.<br />
 The use of online dating sites allows me to meet all types of people from different backgrounds.</p>
<p> I love flirting with people I find attractive. Sometimes I seek long distance conversations from others across the country and around the world. Most of the time, I am consumed with interacting with the hot singles in my area. </p>
<p>When the conversation gets a little naughty, it turns me on more to know that the person is close by. </p>
<p>If I decide I want to meet one of the hot singles in person, it is very easy to do so. All we have to do is arrange a date, time, and location for the meeting because we live in the same area. When things are really steamy and I cannot wait any longer to meet the person, we can meet right away because we live so close together. </p>
<p>There is nothing better than online dating, in my opinion, because you have more confidence to flirt and communicate with other attractive singles that you may not have in your everyday life.</p>
<p> My goal is to find my soul mate, get married, and have lots of kids. Since that has not happened yet, I am enjoying being single and meeting lots of hot singles online. I like variety and the countless online dating sites offer just that. I am attracted to blondes and brunettes, blacks and whites, Asians and Hispanics, men and women. </p>
<p>The only thing that matters to me is hotness. If you are hot, I am interested. </p>
<p>Chatting online is safe and secure also. I can take my time and get to know every person individually to see if our personalities match.<br />
 If I am no longer interested in a person, I can simply move on to the next one.<br />
 There are so many hot singles in my area and so little time to meet them all. I am usually awake into the wee hours of the morning chatting with singles and browsing the many online dating sites available. My favorite part of online dating is sending the initial correspondence. I get to think of lots of clever pickup lines that would be corny to say in person. All in all, dating online is a great way to meet hot, interesting people. </p>
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		<title>Internet Dating For Christian Singles</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 04:15:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Orok</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Internet Dating is Also for Single Christians If you happen to be single and a christian, online dating may be your best option so you can finally meet your special someone. Naturally, internet dating for christian singles begins by signing up in one of these sites. Of the many out there, Christian Cafe, Single Christian [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Internet Dating is Also for Single Christians</p>
<p>If you happen to be single and a christian, online dating may be your best option so you can finally meet your special someone.</p>
<p>Naturally, internet dating for christian singles begins by signing up in one of these sites. Of the many out there, Christian Cafe, Single Christian Network, Christian Singles Connection and Christian Soulmates are the only ones catered to the conservative christians as the others namely Big Church, eHarmony, Match.com and Relationships.com support homosexual relations and fornication.</p>
<p>Trial membership to these sites last from 5 to 10 days then from there, you have to pay a certain fee to keep your account active. If you haven&#8217;t found anyone yet during the trial period, try signing up for an extended period like a month before moving on to another site.</p>
<p>Each of these sites have a user friendly application form which you can fill up in a few minutes. If you are told to write something about yourself, choose your words carefully so you are able to get the interest of people just like yourself.</p>
<p>Do you have to upload a picture to your account? The answer is no because you are not required to. You can simply do this later on or or only forward this to people who you are interested in knowing further.</p>
<p>Internet dating for christian singles is the next best thing if you still haven&#8217;t found the love of your life. If you are skeptic, look at the bible because there are many verses there which state that man should not live alone and that he should go forth and multiply. In some way, this makes finding your love online perfectly alright even in the eyes of God.</p>
<p>So instead of waiting for love to come knocking on your door, why don&#8217;t you put yourself out there by creating an account. You will never know until you try so just keep an open mind.</p>
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		<title>Courteney Cox vs Nelly Furtado</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 03:14:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Orok</dc:creator>
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		<title>Alpha Male vs the Jerk</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 23:28:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Orok</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The alpha male, and the jerk, are both terms used stereotype certain males with a specific personality type. This terminology is primarily used in the dating world. Although alpha males and jerks can both come off as cocky and arrogant, there is a clear and distinctive difference between them. Jerks, as a rule, are the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The alpha male, and the jerk, are both terms used stereotype certain males with a specific personality type. This terminology is primarily used in the dating world. Although alpha males and jerks can both come off as cocky and arrogant, there is a clear and distinctive difference between them.</p>
<p>Jerks, as a rule, are the unpredictable &#8220;bad boys&#8221;. Women are attracted to them because of their very unpredictability. Their volatile nature, though exasperating at times, is also their biggest charm. This makes them a challenge and a surprise, a thrill that &#8220;nice guys&#8221; often lack, and that women are drawn to. However, a closer inspection reveals their true nature. Jerks strive fit the manly image they are cast in, but lose sight of the real definition of a man. They try to raise themselves, not by their own merit, but by belittling others to appear better themselves.</p>
<p>Jerks are not to be confused with alpha males, who, although sometimes are similar, have a much more definite sense of pride and honor than jerks. Although they too, are strong people with a great deal of confidence in themselves, they do not belittle others to make themselves feel better. They know that they can respect others, and still keep their authority. Alpha males are natural leaders, refined in their tastes, with a strong sense of justice. Unlike jerks, alpha males rise to their position by their own skill, and still respect those that are below them on the social ladder.</p>
<p>All in all, a jerk is a wannabe alpha male. He strives for the confidence and flair that the alpha male has, without capturing the gentlemanly essence of the alpha male. He seems attractive at first, but upon closer inspection, lacks the depth and attraction that a real alpha male requires.</p>
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		<title>How To Be An Alpha Male</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 22:24:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Orok</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The alpha male is known for being the dominate male among other males; observed primarily in animal packs and primates, there are some males that are given priority consideration during a female mate selection and in feeding, plus they are born leaders. This behavior may also be observed among humans and many men would love [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The alpha male is known for being the dominate male among other males; observed primarily in animal packs and primates, there are some males that are given priority consideration during a female mate selection and in feeding, plus they are born leaders. This behavior may also be observed among humans and many men would love to reach that status.</p>
<p>The major traits of an alpha male include solid beliefs both in himself and the world. He is not always the most successful or the smartest, but he believes that his way of thinking is the right one and makes others around him tend to just become less important. His convictions are strong enough to make you think (at least for that moment) that he is correct. Once he makes a decision there is very little, if any, question in his mind that he made the correct decision, assuming it is right.</p>
<p>Another trait needed to become an alpha male is adaptability, knowing how to react and behave in every situation both socially and physically. While he may not really like change he will adapt to his environment very quickly and does not waste time thinking about what he should do. When thrown into a social situation that is not familiar to him he will quickly adapt and will easily take control of the moment. It is quite common for people to surround alpha males at gatherings such as cocktail parties simply due to their adaptability.</p>
<p>Perhaps one of the strongest traits needed to become an alpha male is the ability and willingness to protect the people that they love. He carries the ultimate burden by putting the value of his own life below those that he cares about; as a father he will die if it means life for his children and wife.</p>
<p>An alpha male tends to ignore insults and keeps his own moods and personal well being, as well as those he loves, unaffected by others that are unhappy with their life and are determined to bring others down with them.</p>
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		<title>Dealing with rejection in a relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 03:40:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Orok</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the most feared and inevitable outcomes when dating is rejection. This can come in many forms, from being stood up for a date to having a long term partner calling off the relationship. The fact is, if you are going to date then sooner or later you are going to get rejected. What [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the most feared and inevitable outcomes when dating is rejection. This can come in many forms, from being stood up for a date to having a long term partner calling off the relationship. The fact is, if you are going to date then sooner or later you are going to get rejected. What exactly does this mean and what can you do about it?</p>
<p>Don’t blame yourself. Unless you are the one that has done the rejecting you are not the one that has decided that it was over. They have left for their own needs and wants. It is their issue that they cannot be with you anymore, not yours. Do not try to drastically change yourself to suit what they say they want, it won’t work. It’s already over.</p>
<p>Many feelings will start to come up; depression, anger, worry. These are all normal feelings that must not be suppressed. They are there for a reason and have their own part to play in the healing process that comes after the relationship is over. Trying to force yourself to stop feeling these things will end in more pain and confusion later. The key to getting past these feelings is knowing that it is over. It is time to move on. Often the rejection does not give a feeling of complete closure and this can make your progress hard. You must acknowledge the fact that this person does not want to try anymore. Be angry and depressed at this thought, then get over them.</p>
<p>Find something to take your mind off of the sudden change. Take up a hobby or spend your time with family and friends. Be places where you are accepted for who you are and do things that make you feel good about yourself and your abilities. This will help to get over the sudden drop in self confidence that has come with your rejection. Keep in mind that confidence is the most attractive feature and eventually you will be back on the dating scene again.</p>
<p>Do not fall prey to the hate fueled notion of revenge. Many people will joke about rebounds and getting even but this is very unhealthy behavior and will not make you feel any better in the long run. Acting out against every member of the opposite sex is not only unfair to them, it is unfair to you. The next person you lash out against to ease your broken heart could have been the one to help you heal it.</p>
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		<title>What to Do When Things Go Wrong on Your Date</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 03:40:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Orok</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes, dates don’t go as planned and either one or both parties become uninterested in the other. In this case, the best thing you can do is to be honest with the other person and tell them that you are just not interested and that it would be best to remain as friends. Everyone hears [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes, dates don’t go as planned and either one or both parties become uninterested in the other. In this case, the best thing you can do is to be honest with the other person and tell them that you are just not interested and that it would be best to remain as friends. Everyone hears friends and thinks “oh no, I have been placed in the dreaded friend zone”. But the truth is that it is far better to hear “friends” than to be led on for a long time only to be hurt worse in the future.</p>
<p>There are several things you can do on your end to keep this from happening. The number one thing is to appear self-confident to the person you are on a date with. Both men and women both say that one of the traits that attracts them the most is self-confidence. The way you do this is by actually becoming more confident in yourself. Confidence is not a trait which can come and go as you please. If you try to appear confident but it’s only an act, it will show through. You need to gain confidence in yourself by facing your fears, realizing the many great qualities about yourself, and doing things publicly, but appropriately, that you wouldn’t usually do. Karaoke or night club dancing is a great example. Confidence is not an act but rather an attitude.</p>
<p>Another tip for not striking out on a date is showing your romantic and sensitive side. This one is largely directed towards males, but females show pay attention too because of the biggest mistakes women make is not showing a man how much their efforts are appreciated. To win over big with men, women to learn that men take pride in the things they do and nurturing that is one key step in winning a guy over. Men can be romantic and sensitive by choosing a romantic location for a date. Such as a fancy, upscale restaurant with candles and soft music. A few flowers or a cute teddy bear couldn’t hurt either. The most important thing is not coming off as cheesy because women see “cheesy” as really being “fake”.</p>
<p>Just remember that rejection is not a bad thing and that not everyone is going to like everyone. Sometimes you have to catch a few guppies before you find your perfect walleye. Be confident, be romantic, and respectful and you will find Mr. or Ms. Right.</p>
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		<title>How to be Romantic with Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Dec 2008 23:27:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Orok</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The complaint that is heard most often in failing relationships is lack of romance. Unfortunately, there is no definitive recipe for romance. The clichés of flowers and candy are nice but many women are over it by the second or third guy that tries this. Countless times I have overheard men telling their friends that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The complaint that is heard most often in failing relationships is lack of romance. Unfortunately, there is no definitive recipe for romance. The clichés of flowers and candy are nice but many women are over it by the second or third guy that tries this. Countless times I have overheard men telling their friends that they needed a romantic gesture for their girlfriends or wives and rejecting the idea of flowers. “She doesn’t like flowers,” is the most commonly heard response. This blew me away when I first heard it. What woman would not like flowers? The fact that I have heard this come up more than a few times led me to ask around and try to figure out exactly what romance was if it isn’t prepackaged in a box at the local retail store.</p>
<p>Many women will openly admit that yes, they like presents and if those presents come in the form of flowers then they will not complain. Still, is it romantic? Not surprisingly a majority of women would rather have an inexpensive trinket that reflects their likes and desires. This is because when their boyfriend brings home a book by their favorite author or her favorite brand of cookie dough it shows that they have been listening to them while they talk about their desires. Knowing your partner and what they like is ten times better than a bouquet the bag boy threw together for minimum wage. It shows caring, understanding and compassion.</p>
<p>Another complaint about romantic gestures is the fact that they can usually be planned out on a calendar. Having presents on Valentines Day and her birthday are a must but bringing home a little extra something just because it is Wednesday means so much more. “I saw it and it made me think of you,” is a great way to show her that even when she is out of sight she is not out of mind. Never underestimate the power of thinking of your significant other while making a run to the store to get milk.</p>
<p>So a box of chocolates and a dozen roses don’t make up actual romance. They should not be taken from the list (unless your girlfriend is one of those that doesn’t like flowers), but true romance comes from declarations of love. This declaration is just a bit tarnished when you consider that every other woman on the block has gotten the same gift as yours. Make your romantic offerings personal and spontaneous and she will be sure to talk about it to all of her friends.</p>
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		<title>How to Build More Confidence in Dating</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2008 23:24:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John Orok</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Confidence, its one of the most attractive qualities that can be displayed to the opposite sex. If a man is self confident he is strong, reassuring and attractive. Likewise, if a woman is confident she is sexy, laid back and approachable. So how do you reach this level of attractiveness in your dating life? Following [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Confidence, its one of the most attractive qualities that can be displayed to the opposite sex. If a man is self confident he is strong, reassuring and attractive. Likewise, if a woman is confident she is sexy, laid back and approachable. So how do you reach this level of attractiveness in your dating life? Following a few easy steps will ensure that you are not tripping over your own two feet in fear when asking the most desirable person at the bar for a date or when walking them to the door afterwards.</p>
<p>1. Practice makes perfect.</p>
<p>There are many areas where our confidence lacks; singing, dancing, talking to the opposite sex. While these things can be intimidating to the point that you feel overwhelmed there is one surefire solution to overcoming them: practice. There are many places to sing karaoke or to dance like a fool without ridicule and the more these things are done the more secure you will feel in doing them. Often if you make your practice a frequent outing you will pick up tips about improving your new found skills. If your fears come from talking to the opposite sex then simply saying hello to passing strangers can help to push the reluctance aside. You would be surprised how many friendly responses you get.</p>
<p>2. The art of body language.</p>
<p>More likely than not you aren’t aware of what your body language is saying to those around you. Are you crossing your arms or your legs? If so this is a sign to those around you that you are closed off and unapproachable. Are you slouched over and sullen? These are signs that you are not happy with your current situation and quite frankly not a lot of fun. By paying close attention to how you are displaying yourself you will be more open to interaction. Once you see your interest returned your confidence will raise in leaps and bounds.</p>
<p>3. Psych up!</p>
<p>Nerves are never easy to overcome. A quick fix is to take music that makes your blood run faster -the kind that has you bouncing in your seat &#8211; and to listen to it before a night of clubbing or dating. The excess energy you build will carry over into the night and make you a good time waiting to happen.</p>
<p>4. Build on the strongest foundations.</p>
<p>Lack of confidence comes from insecurity. Find the good things about yourself and think about them, build on them. If you have found that special person to date make a commonplace of your strengths and go from there. You will never appear more confident and attractive than when you are talking about your strong points.</p>
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